I asked Amy for dinner this week, which she asked to be scheduled on tuesday.Amy is a canadian girl i met at d pool while i was doing my regular workout.She’s nice and sincere when u talk to her and very entusiastic on how she likes Philippines.She likes to travel so that encouraged me to continue conversing with her. We’ve been friends, that i know of, eversince.
She’s leaving the country on Thursday because she found work based where she stays,Switzerland.It was challenging for her to be away from her boyfriend that’s the reason she wanted to go back to the alps.
Anyway, we went for dinner at Greenbelt at Banana Leaf.The dinner was good, aside from the company and the stories told. i insisted to pay the bill which that night i just brought my BPI local credit card, to my disappointment they do not accept the card in the establishment. But funny the waitress handed the credit card to Amy. The name on the card sounds so pinay,is it because the waitress thinks Amy was paying for the bill because she was white? I did not mind.
To cut our dinner situation short,embarassing she insisted in paying the bill. We went for gelato and stories after our meal.
We decided to head back home since it would be her turnover day today,her last day at work.We thought its going to be a long day for her. We took a cab at Greenbelt 3 driveway.
As we boarded the cab the driver said 80 pesos flag down. I didnt want to argue and destroy my night, i wanted to go home, i was tired. Amy asked why is that so i asked the driver why? He said it was difficult to queue at the driveway, well he has options not to fall in line in that driveway.or is it because they knew that Greenbelt was a tourist haven. And-or is it because i was with a white girl. I was a bit pissed but i just kept cool.
Dropped Amy at Leviste st. As i dropped her off the driver asked, ‘amo nio po?’(is she your boss?). I answered him, ‘Why? Not just because she’s white she’s a boss, not just because we are pinoy and all whites they are our superiors’ and he kept mum. I said, she is my friend not my boss. He said probably out of embarassment he said, because she seem so kind. Duh!
This is just one of many stories of thinking the foreigners are better than us.
Whenever we see Caucasians some of us call them sir or ma’am. In a plane ride from Europe back to Pilipinas a Caucasian couple took Joel’s sit, and asked if they can take it. Joel and i did early internet check-in so to choose a comfortable sit in the plane. Joel consulted me what he needs to do. I told him not to agree and just get pushed over. Well we could have been nice if they were elderly or disabled, not just because we are brown and they are white we would have said yes.
I hope one day people get over of feeling inferior of other races and other race would treat us one of their equals.